Continuing with the theme of erotic toys today we are going to talk about the dildo.It’s a name that is outdated, but according to Google they look for it with a lot of word, especially in Latin America. So before lynching to bring this term to this time we are going to contextualize a bit. Have you ever wondered why the dildos so big?
Dildos
The dildo is a complement or sexual instrument that is used to help in stimulation either during masturbation or during a sexual encounter. It allows preparing the man or the woman so that she has a more pleasant sexual experience.
Although of course, it all depends on how you use it since it can be painful for some people or so pleasant that others may come to think that they do not need a partner to enjoy sex.
Have you ever wondered if size matters? Maybe in the penis but not in your dildo. Check out this article.
Many people say that size does not matter when talking about a penis, but that is not something you say when you buy dildos. Size does matter.
With respect to penises, size is important for some people, usually those at the ends of each spectrum, large or small. But relationships are formed with people, not with penises. It can be smaller than average and have a great sex life, find your soul mate, or both. At the other extreme, people with large penises sometimes complain that sex is not comfortable for them or their partner. And no, it’s not as weird as you think. A huge penis can be even painful or difficult to keep erect.
But in terms of a dildo, a sex toy that you’re buying cold, cash, buying the right size is important. Get one too big or too small, and you will not be happy.
When your comforter is too big
Contrary to popular belief, not everyone wants to put a 20cm penis in their body. And some people, who want, cannot. Why? Because being too large can cause great discomfort to a person with a small vulva, especially once it hits the cervix. The vagina is designed to expand in large proportions, but not without a lot of time and some pain. Why do you think labor hurts so much? And if you want to coax a vagina to hold on to something big, you’re going to need patience and a lot of lubricant.
Too big not only applies to vaginas. Have you ever tried anal sex with a dildo that did not fit? Technically, the anal game is not supposed to hurt, but it usually does because people move too fast and play with a sex toy that is too big before they are ready. The rectum is quite delicate and you can injure yourself more easily than you think. Until you are a player or an experienced anal player, start with something small and manageable.
When your comforter is too small
“Too small” is not always the most accurate term. Some dildos may be too short, which means they can overlook the all-important G-spot that many women yearn to stimulate in their vaginas. Other dildos may be long enough but too thin. There is not enough circumferences to fill a person who wants to feel “complete” at the time of penetration that he likes the most.
If you’re not sure what the right size is for you, stay with a medium-sized dildo. Most bodies can accommodate the average penis without any problem, so a dildo of the same size is a good starting point. And what is average? About 14-15 cm is really the average size for most penises and dildos.
When you can choose long huge dildos
For some people, the bigger a dildo is the better. They can be the queens of size or people who love to play with style. You may like to feel full and stretched to your limits. For people who get more advanced penetration, giant dildos can be perfect for fisting or to discover how much they can fit into their bodies.
In BDSM, large dildos are used in a variety of ways, especially in the game of humiliation. Some people want to force themselves (or their partners) to choke while they are practicing the deep throat. Other people play torturing their partner by comparing their penis with a giant dildo. Girls can be called “whore” or “bitch” for taking a big dildo and experiencing the excitement of control or submission. This level of dildo play is not for everyone, and should only be tested after you have established a healthy bond with your partner, a set of rules and have full consent.
When you need something smaller
Believe it or not, sometimes you really need a smaller dildo. We mentioned anal sex before, but it’s worth repeating it. Start with something small! Look for shorter and thinner dildos. If you are testing the prostate stimulation, look for a sex toy with a curved or bent tip if you only want to touch your p point. A long thin dildo, regardless of length, may be perfect for anal play if you’re just starting out.
In what other case would a smaller dildo be preferable? Anyone with a vagina who experiences discomfort during penetration with toys or large penises may benefit from a smaller dildo. Like anyone who wants to try something like double penetration, whether you’re trying two dildos in your vagina or one in your vagina and another in your anus. If you are new to these types of games, a small dildo (and a lot of lubricant) will probably work better than one of the gigantic dildos.
Conclusion
Many people may have thought that dildos seem to have larger sizes than real penises or that this is what is expected. This is only because some people do seek and want a bigger dildo to play. The size of your dildo helps determine the type of sexy fun you will have and how good you will feel. Not everyone goes after the 20cm penis, and some people really need and enjoy smaller and thinner dildos. The size of the Dildo is important, but not always in the way you would think.